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Todd Morris's avatar

Thanks for this Tom.

Sometimes I lament that I’m “mostly talking to myself” here. But the funny thing is, there’s an easy antidote. I just need to go talk with other people, instead of hoping they come to me.

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Anima Martins's avatar

Love reading your post, very heart felt. I like your strategy. But sadly I will not be able to join your training. Someday may be.

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Sam Messersmith's avatar

Sounds absolutely amazing Tom. Well done.

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Lee Drozak's avatar

Making friends and getting inside their stories is what it's all about.

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16VC's avatar

The idea of one meaningful interaction per week is deceptively powerful. It reminds me that consistency + heart often outperforms strategy + hustle.

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Shruthi Vidhya Sundaram's avatar

Making friends and connecting deeply with people has changed my life! Especially on substack. I'm so grateful for everyone I know here!

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John Paul Hernandez's avatar

I find that making friends, and having conversations, inspires a heavy part of my work as well. You have more things to write about and can think of new perspectives.

If you look at Hemingway, his audacious and adventurous stories all involved conversations from real events. Without those moments, and without friends, he would be severely limited as a writer.

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