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Christopher Landriau's avatar

I love how you focus not just on the craft of writing, but on the relationship to the craft. At some point, every artist realizes: the subject is the self!

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Tom Kuegler's avatar

Thank you Christopher. I learned that the relationship with writing is even more important than writing itself for me as someone who does this full-time. If my relationship with my craft sucks, I'm in for some hurting later on.

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Don Boivin's avatar

I posted a Substack Note this morning that is currently up to 292 likes and is still buzzing and beeping as we speak. The original Note was:

"When I watch the news I think, what a clown show; we’re doomed.

When I read books I think, what a diverse, complex, and beautiful world. I’m so glad to be a part of it.

Read more books."

Then I realized that the third line ("Read more books.") was bullshit. I didn't really mean it; I don't really care what other people do and I certainly don't like TELLING people what to do. So I deleted that line. The first two lines are my truth. I was really feeling those things in my heart this morning. And I know Substack readers love to read so I figured they would appreciate the words. I had no idea the Note would get 300 likes in 11 hours!

So, I hope my take helps... Thanks for sharing your knowledge and experience, Tom!

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Tom Kuegler's avatar

Don I agree with the reading more books part, though! :) Thanks for sharing your experience. Thanks for reading, too. Cheers

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Preston's avatar

Some of my best (and longest) articles also come in the dead of night 😂 I’m glad I’m not the only one and appreciated this read!

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Tom Kuegler's avatar

Haha glad to know I'm not alone here Preston

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Preston's avatar

Certainly not. Now, I will do a quick read through before publishing of course, but usually there’s not much to change other than my inevitable typos that I hate catching after publishing.

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another shradha's avatar

Please do link to that viral article on HuffPost :)

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Lawson Wallace's avatar

I wrote a story that went viral on Medium. Without intending to I made a lot of people angry. It was the summer three years ago. I made over a hundred dollars a month on Medium because of that story. It's never happened again. I made a video on YouTube that went viral. It made a lot of money for several months because the algorithm picked it up, but that ended recently. The point is, do the best you can and don't worry about virality. Do good work, the good stuff will come when it's time.

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Christoph Heinen's avatar

Tom, you nailed it. I’m honored to have discovered your work.

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Tom Kuegler's avatar

Christoph you didn't have to go making my day with a comment but here you are. Thank you.🥹

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Teyani Whitman's avatar

I so agree. The power of the passion in the writers words is what draws the readers. So powerful that it allows the reader to feel that passion too.

I agree that it’s futile and ultimately meaningless to “go viral”, with one exception: it validates that we have conveyed our feelings well. What a rush getting this reflection.

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Tom Kuegler's avatar

It is a huge validation to go viral for sure. It makes you feel like you belong and that your thoughts and ideas have value. That's really nice, for sure.

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Bill Hiatt's avatar

One of the problems with chasing virality is that if everyone could go viral, then going viral wouldn't end up meaning much. There's only so much attention out there to be captured. It's better to find more likely and more sustainable ways to do it.

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Tom Kuegler's avatar

Yeah Bill I think we're seeing that a lot on platforms like X and LinkedIn. It's relatively easy to go viral there if you know what to write about and how to structure it. But now that everyone is going viral writing the same stuff, it's hard to tell anybody apart.

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Kristi Keller 🇨🇦's avatar

It's kind of funny to chase virality. Like, WHY do we care? It's nothing more than a weird form of validation and it does get us anything but popularity. I dunno. Humans were so much more mentally sane before the internet existed 😂

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Tom Kuegler's avatar

Kristi I AGREE. I remember what life was like when I was 11-12 before I had a Facebook and it was amazing. My kids are not going to be on social media until they're like 16 or something IDK.

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Kristi Keller 🇨🇦's avatar

LOL you better hire someone to police that 😂

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Janine Agoglia's avatar

If you are writing for numbers, you are never going to hit them. The more you write for you and what you are passionate about, the more your readers will engage. If you connect with people like you, which I think is more of the goal, they will resonate with how you feel when you share your writing. That's been my experience.

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Tom Kuegler's avatar

Yes, plus it's more sustainable. Most people could grow on any platform if they just knew what worked and were dedicated to it. But most would end up quitting if they didn't feel connected to what they were creating. It's a losing game.

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Pam Clark's avatar

It's one thing to let off steam and get a response, but quite another to write to a large group and somehow be real all the time. You have to be real to you, or the monster will form you. Still, it's nice to have some company.

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Tom Kuegler's avatar

The more I stay in this game Pam the more I realize that combining my interests/emotions with what my audience wants to read is absolutely necessary for me to be able to create something both I and the audience loves.

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Sarrah B.'s avatar

A good point about not caring about the virility of a post. 😎

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Gina Petty's avatar

Mad truth here! Thank you for the reminder!!

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Eva dick's avatar

It is like when I paint a canvas, if I’m not in the paint/feels I’m not on the canvas.

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Tom Kuegler's avatar

I never knew that in painting they had a similar belief about emotions + higher connection with our emotions resulting in better pieces. But it makes sense that for any creative task it would probably be the same.

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Michael Major's avatar

Excellent article, I find myself falling into the trap of seeking likes when I should be telling a good story.

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Taylor Fournier's avatar

I love this. Going viral isn’t something that can be forced. A lot of time it happens by chance. But people are so obsessed with the goal of going viral that they forget to obsess over the action of honing their craft.

Going viral is overrated anyway. If you know your target market, you won’t be trying to please the masses!

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